I managed to break no contact with my ex at day 14 and the answers that I have been wanting to know finally came out. I'm extremely hurt, he lied to me and lead me on. He's choosing the girl that he left me for all over again, even though he said that he's not going to get back with her. He told me from the beginning before I contacted him that it would be pointless because I'm not going to like what he has to say. I wasn't poking for questions, I just wanted to talk and tell him how I felt. Towards the end some of the things he said pierced my heart. One of the things that he told me was all that I have of him were memories and his ex has his heart. They were only together for a month I don't see how he could have been so in love with her. He says it isn't about her, but it always has been. She's the reason why we aren't together. Anyways, I was trying to talk to my ex without offending him and he thinks that I'm blaming him for what happened in the past. Basically we were talking not dating he liked me and I liked him, my ex didn't like the fact that I was talking to other guys. Well we weren't officially together. He's all about if I talk to that one person I talk to that one. They were just friends, I didn't have any interest in them whatsoever, we were all just friends that lived out of state. We talk some more and I apologized for what I did in the past and I took blame as usual. Then he tells me not to text him again. I felt so stupid that I texted him, I wish I never did. I feel hurt and humiliated. I told him not to do this, i asked if he was sure no answer. So I went off on him in a hurt emotional rage. I was confused about some things like when I said, "you wanted to be friends, isn't that you wanted?" and he didn't say anything. Then I asked if he wanted me to move on after I said that's what I have to do and no response. I'm confused about all this. I don't know if he meant what he said about us never seeing each other because of our LDR.
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I know exactly how this situation feels, it sucks... so much. I know all you want is for him to give you answers that will make you feel better about what happened between you two, but honestly that doesn't matter anymore. He is your ex, he should no longer have an affect on your life. I know that this is easier said than done, but he shouldn't even matter to you anymore, he is going to regret leaving you and he'll know that he made a mistake so the best thing you can do is move on and make him feel like an idiot for not keeping you when he had you. And don't be embarrassed, everyone has had that "crazy exgirlfriend" moment, so don't feel bad about it.0
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