7 months into the break up, my ex boyfriend and I are still communicating with each other. Although the communication is more on a friendly tone, he still do care about me in general. He told me to move on but I don't think he really meant what he said. As far I know him, he is a person who likes to put a test on anybody to see their reaction. But lately, when I call him or text him, he would reply very late and often cut short the conversation or a one liner text response. Sometimes he is rude in his words to me but when I didn't call him or response to his text, he would reach out for me.
I still trying to get back with him but its getting harder and harder everytime.
Most Helpful Guy
Caring and loving can sometimes be taken to mean the same thing. As you know, you can care for someone without necessary loving them. Each one of us carries a sense of humanity that makes identify with a fellow human being. This pushes us to care for the other. That explains the care he still offers to you.
In some instances, the care offered to someone could driven by serving our own malignant motive. Think about a kidnapper caring to their hostage to extract some outcome.
7 months is too long to continue to win an ex lover back. Preferably, wean yourself off of trying to win him back. The alternative is better than what you've been doing over the last 7 months.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well why would you want to be with someone who would test you. You want to be with someone who isn't going to toy with your emotions or take it for granted. People who want to be with eachother let them know1