This isn't really a break up but it feels like one. And I've never felt like this about someone I barely knew. We met a few months ago but decided last month that we should stop talking to each other because we can't be together and we both have to forget each other. He's not ready for a relationship because he's still in love with his ex but she moved on with someone else.
I meet a lot of guys and almost every week I try to go on a date. I'll meet guys who are cute and fun.. but no matter what I can't get Jake out of my head. He's the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I think of when going to bed. Every night I just cry. I don't what's wrong with me. I've never been like this before. We never even had sex we only kissed once and it was the best kiss I've had my whole life.
How do I force him out of my mind? How do I forget him? I tried really hard I even dated a guy for like a month to try to forget Jake but it ddnt work and now I feel worse about myself cus I had sex with someone I didn't even like.
-Super Heartbroken 💔
Most Helpful Girl
Trying to forget someone you love or care about is like trying to remember someone you have met. You just can't!
Although you feel hurt now, the pain would be long- term if you entered into a relationship with him, because he is still hung up on his ex. I could never give a guy my heart while he is picking up the pieces of his own. It would cause you to feel emotionally unsafe , and trust issues would develop. You'd start to feel so unhappy and alone, and feeling alone in a relationship hurts more than feeling alone when you are single
Sometimes you just have to accept that some people can stay in your heart, but not in your life. Every time he is with you , he'd have his ex on his mind, so why be someone's other when you can be someone else's only.
There's no remedy for a broken heart. All you can do is keep active, surround yourself with family or friends. Try something new. Keep your mind focused on things other than him. Gradually your feelings will fade. Why waste your feelings on a guy who doesn't value them. Xx 💜1