I've been going on a relationship for almost 2 years now, and it's getting to a point that I'm just not sure if we're there anymore and whether or not we're in it out of comfort and fear that there's nothing better. I have times that I know I love her for sure, but then we just fight about something stupid for seemingly no reason.
is it time for a break?
do breaks ever work?
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I think "breaks" can be helpful...It also depends on the kind of "break" you take...There is the...let's just not see each other for a couple of weeks and give some space OR...the "see" other people "break". It's great you're aware that you could just be in a comfort zone and reluctant to try something new...It sure sounds like you two need to do something though..whether it change up you're activities, love life, take a class together, read a relationship book together, get a kama sutra book...Caring for someone and being comfortable is great but not as wonderful as being passionately in love and can't wait to see them... Of course that can't be everyday or all the time for any of us...but it sure should be "MOST" of the time...When the butterflies in the stomach go away it's time to change things up. You have two years invested in each other...perhaps you should first try and find creative solutions to you situation...if it doesn't improve then maybe a break may be a good thing...One way or the other. Best of luck. Cheers!0