I dated a girl for like a month. We were really good friends (ateast I thought so) we would text or talk to eachother everyday over the course of 4months, but I knew she liked me. So I decided to ask her out, and we dated for like a MONTH, and during this time I began studying for a huge test called the MCAT. I was afraid that my feelings for her would comprimise my study time so I became distant, and would rarely respond to her texts, and began treating her poorly and acted like an asshole. Soon after she stopped responding to my texts. Today her and I were in the elevator and I knew what floor she had to go to, but she instead got off on a different floor. When I texted her about passing the MCAT and acquiring a good score she simply didn't reply. I texted a lot of people not just her, some of whom were my exes who I had a much worse relationship with and they all replied it may have taken up to 2 days to respond but they did and congradulated me with the exception of her. So my question is what should I do so she's not awkward around me, I texted her and apologized for my actions, and she accepted it, but she continues to act this way. So my question is what should I do? Should I just not care? Should I attempt to reach out and apologize in person (but I feel like if I did this she may think I was weird, insane, or harassing her), or something else? Why is she acting like this as well? Should I feel bad, because I do! The purpose of medicine is to do no harm, and yet I feel like I harmed a person that was close to me for selfish gains! I don't know what to do. The way she avoids me makes me feel like she is afraid of me! I stil care for her, I was just scared I would love her so much I wouldn't want to study. Help me!
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I think you should try to apologise in person. Some girls will act this way to see your reaction or how much you actually care/are sorry. Show her that you really are sorry because to be honest you were rude towards her. If after that she still behaves like that I recommend just forgetting about it all and ignoring her.0