Most Helpful Guy
physical attraction is mostly valued in women.
be fit and ladylike
get educated and capable and little mistakes you make won't ruin your life... even if you become a single mother (worst case scenario) youd have a good job/income and you have a better chance1
Most Helpful Girl
I've been there too, and it sucks :( The best thing you can do is move on. Accept that he didn't love you and focus on the fact that there is someone out there who will love you just as much as you love them, if not even more. Your ex wasn't the one for you, but someone else out there is.2