My ex wife wants me to pay her for child support, but we share them 55/45 split (I have them 55% of the time) We went to family justice and they agreed with her that I should pay the money. However they are basing the money on income taxes where I had to pull out the rrsp and give to her to balance the seperation. She actually makes more money then I do, and to boot she gets to take the kids on vacations and such on the money that I am suppling her where I am stuck paying off the 100k that she racked up in dept. I have three options. I could just stop paying her and hope that she comes to her senses and lets me be. or two I could hire a lawyer and fight it in court, but that only hurts my kids more as these vacations they will not be able to go on because we would be paying for the lawyer to go on vacations... or three just suck it up and pay her?
- I could just stop paying her and hope that she comes to her senses and lets me beVote A
- two I could hire a lawyer and fight it in courtVote B
- just suck it up and pay herVote C
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WTF is wrong with America?
If you have your kids 55% of the time you shouldn't have to pay her anything!
She should have to give YOU money, if anything.
In the long run I think it'll be better for you to get a lawyer and fight it. Or at least get a lawyer's opinion. If he feels confident that you have a good case, I'd go for it.
It is really unfair that you'd have to pay her, especially when you are paying up her debt. If there is evidence and it's not he said/she said, you could have a chance at winning.0