Guys, Help!!! Would it be too pushy if I ask him to hang out again tonight?

I asked him to hang out last night and he was busy he said then I asked him if he was available to hang out tonight and he didn't reply. WHY didn't he reply?
Would it be too pushy if I ask him to hang out again tonight?
He did say I can be pushy at times and I want to make sure I'm not being pushy.
What should I do?
Last week when I talked to him he said okay for me to come over this week but I'm not so sure anymore.


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  • A third time might be pushy but a second could always be covered easily. Like just say you assumed that he didn't get it the first time or that he missed it. But yea the third time becomes pushy.

    • This would be my second time because he didn't answer me for tonight

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    • What excuses are you talking about?

    • I suggest you just approach him.
      You retort with the "Oh but he'll think I'm pushy."
      Then I suggest that you don't really have much of a choice.
      "But I don't want to be seen as pushy."

      Look... all I'm saying is that you EITHER approach him. Or you DON'T. It is that simple. Is there a chance he might see you as pushy? Who knows. Maybe. Maybe not. Either way you either stop using the same excuse and run the risk OR you don't do anything, gain nothing and move on from him entirely.

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