Me and boyfriend been dating about 4months. (Yea I know not that long to like someone). We had a lot in common as well, and seem like I knew him forever. Recently he broke up with because he thought I was cheating on him when I told him I was running errands. I know he has insecurities but didn't think it was serious enough to break up with me because of assumptions. Or they way he was feeling. I left my phone in the car trying to get to the place and back home in time for our day together, he text me and said we are done, you are out there with another man. You not answering the phone I never want to hear from you. I got my mind made up am staying single. I been texting/calling him but, am guessing its time to fall back. He just wants to be friends. I don't know why would he want to throw everything we was building away because of insecurities. Help me?
Most Helpful Guy
How do you cope? Get up in the morning and go to bed at night. You have no choice but to cope and you're already doing it. Now, if you're really asking, "how do I feel better about it?" That's achieved through honesty.
However, you're not likely to achieve honesty at this moment given your emotional desires have just been crushed, but most things become known in hindsight.
It wasn't a good relationship and it was never meant to work... when you align your thought process with that statement, things will start looking up.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Know your worth never settle for someone who is going to wrongly accuse you of things just because of their own insecurities. Know that if he's willing to break up over something like that, he'd do that for something else too, it's a rude assumption and there's no proof. You avoided unnecessary drama, and be very thankful for that. Don't be friends, that rarely works, just focus on you and working to make yourself an even better person, go out have fun.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE