I have had this crush on this guy for 5 years now. I met him in freshman uni, and we hit it off real quick. Then something happened and we didn't see each other anymore, until 2 years later. 2 years ago was the last time we ever saw each other, and I never heard from him again until he started following me on instagram last year. He never wrote me a message though.
There hasn't been a day since that I stopped thinking about him. We weren't even boyfriend and girlfriend! I keep caring about what he thinks of me, about if he seen a certain picture I posted, and hoping that he will contact me again.
I just want that "caring" to go away because I feel like the best years of my life are wasted just by thinking of him. Will there ever be a point where I will just let it go and stop thinking about him? stop caring about what he thinks of me? stop wondering when he will contact me?
I am so sick of this. I really want this obsession to stop. Please tell me what to do to be able to let him go. It is driving me nuts
Most Helpful Guy
He was your first.0
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you are just like me. You need to fall in love again with someone else to stop caring and thinking of him. That's the way I am. I can't get over a guy till I meet someone else and get that butterfly feeling again.0