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This happened to a friend of mine. They had been dating a few months And he went on vacation for 2 weeks. She found out months and months later that the vacation was him going home and getting married/his honeymoon. She ended up pregnant. He moved hI'm and his wife to another state and she never heard from him again. My friend ended up dropping out of grad school upon the news of the pregnancy, moving home with her parents, and became a stripper. I'm not even joking.
It's going to hurt. There's no getting around that. But every time you want to blame yourself or think it was something you did... you look at yourself in the mirror and remember you are awesome and he is absolute scum. Truly. It will take time; but one day you will have a moment when you realize he isn't worth a single thought or tear. You'll know what you learned from the situation and how it made you a better person. Always learn from everything you do, and that is how you win at life.