Most Helpful Guy
you aren't making him feel bad by saying that. I don't know what you say to him to make him feel bad during the relationship before but that isn't making him feel bad. I would find this hard myself but my advice is: Leave him alone for awhile, don't text, don't share interaction unless he asks of something of course. Do this and it might make him miss you more. when you come back to talking to him, don't bring up the problems you went through for the breakup, just talk how you would normally when you made each other happy
Most Helpful Girl
You made him feel bad by saying you "hoped you could've worked out" which is the same as saying you know it can't work out.