Me and my ex haven't talked for 6 days after our break up. I've been wanting to send him a message on how I feel about everything, but I feel as if I do he will ignore me. I've respected his wishes and I haven't texted him since the break up, but I feel as if he didn't hear me out. He got upset over little dumb things that I said. I also feel as if there is no point because he's back with the girl that he left me for. Should I continue no contact or should I not even bother? I hate the way things ended and I feel so confused.
I'm still hurt at the fact that he told me that we're never going to get back together. I want him to understand that the only reason that I was so focused on us was because I was afraid of being lead on, that I was afraid that he would do exactly what he did. I felt like I was being used because the only time he would really talk to me is if he was in the mood when I confronted him about it he quit asking for pictures and started pulling away. So I stared getting worried that he wasn't attracted to me anymore, that he didn't want to work things out. He forgets to see that, he only wants to see me constantly asking if he was still interested and that he still wanted me. He's pulled away before and last time he did it was when he left me for his rebound.
I've sat and thought about what he said, but there were reason why I acted like that. At the same time, the reasoning for him letting me go was dumb. What I have to say may not change anything, but I really want him to rethink his decision.
Most Helpful Guy
1. You get get over him, because he might just be using you if apparently he had the girl even before you fought with him, then he's an asshole, don't be with him. 2. You can tell him if you want.. but I am pretty sure he won't consider that, and he's not someone you would want to be with when he can't understand you at all.
Imagine when you're married, and at some point, you'll definitely have a fight with him, and that he takes your words differently from what you intend to say, he can't handle that, then he left you, divorcing you. Would you want that?0
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Most Helpful Girl
If he specifically asked you not to text him or contact him after the breakup, I would advise against it. However, if you feel like you won't be able to move on until you speak your mind and get it off your chest then go for it, just be ready for the repercussions0
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