Im not interested in dating anyone else at the moment, In a way im to scared to get into another one, im also not completly over my ex so I feel as if that would be using another person. And last but definitily not least Im moving to Canada for a year in May. It would be pointless and would only cause hurt when I leave OR will stop me from taking this amazing opportunity I have been given. Just to be clear im not completly stopping myself from finding someone but im not going to go out of my way to get one just so im not lonely- im still keeping my heart open.
Does anyone have any tips that can help me conquer this lonelyness, most of my friends are in relationships. I really need to make more friends- which im hoping to do in Canada. I spend so much of my time either working, or at home which gives me so much time to overthink everthing. Occasionally go out drinking every other weekenk though.
Advice would be great- thanks!
What have you done to get through it?
Have any tips?
Have you been in a situation like this?
Most Helpful Guy
Doesn't sound like being single is the problem here. The problem is that you have no friends and feel lonely, just like you said.
You can still remain single and try to make friends. You can also get some hobbies and interests that you can do alone or in group. You could perhaps try different kinds of team sports, that will likely get you new friends.
Also realize that there is nothing wrong with being single. It's easy to get trapped in the thinking that it is a problem that needs to be fixed asap, especially when all around you are in a relationship.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I had been alone for two years after my ex dumped me for no reason. I went through a lot of pain and pursued him relentlessly without him telling me he doesn't care about me anymore.
My advice is to stop and focus on his negatives. "Oh he was a good kisser BUT he also did ditch me that one time" and realise you two will NEVER get back together.
Focus on yourself. Learn new things about yourself. Take risks. Try new things. Grow.
When you go to Canada continue focusing on your new life.
After suffering the two years I dyed my hair red and started a new life. Yes I wasn't over him but I just erased him from my life. I met someone new too and although I didn't want to date them (for all the reasons you just stated) I did. It took a while to adjust and for me to get over my ex but it occured.
Remember dont let the past get to you. Focus on the future.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE