Most Helpful Guy
Lovebird7 is 100% right! I was in the same thing. She's distant and just didn't act the same way she did in the beginning. I was always in the gray area and when I give her the option to leave she said nothing or just twists it to make me feel terrible about it. Best thing is to try to get an answer. 3+ years is a long time but you can definitely get over it over time. Don't rush into anything after either. i was taught all my life to share my feelings and speak up if anything was wrong. If he can't do that then what's the point. No communication or commitment... Then there nothing.
Most Helpful Girl
Girl honestly I know where you're coming from! The reason ur having a hard time moving on is because u don't have closure! & ur sitting around just wondering all day! I've been there!! What u should do is CALL him & tell him that u will leave him alone for GOOD if he just gives u closure bc that's all u want! If he DOES tell u he doesn't wanna be with u & he wants to be left alone, it's gonna hurt ALOT! A whole lot BUT u will be able to move on faster if u just have closure! Trust me! & even if u can't move ON right now, u should at least try to move FORWARD with your life Hun! Moving forward doesn't mean moving ON! It just means that u continue living YOUR life without sitting around worried & depressed all day! & I know it's SOOO hard but u have to try! Feel free to message me if u have any other questions!