I broke up with my boyfriend almost 2 months ago. We got into a fight. He said some hurtful stuff. I was really upset. so i ended it. we where living together. Also we have dated before, broke up then deiced to get back together in July. Most of the time we where good together. But we had been fighting a lot. i miss him a lot and have been thinking about how we could make the relationship better if we tried again. Im 25, he'll be 25 next month. I dont have a lot of experience dating. So I've also been tiring to work on myself.
So my question is. IS it worth it to try to get my ex back?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes it is "worth it"... of course it is!!! But, have you really spent enough time working on yourself to enter back into this relationship and accept how your ex is or handle tough situations involving him better?
It is only after you've self reflected and done some deep emotional controlling that you should reapproach the idea of getting back with an ex.
I have no idea what it is that caused the break up and getting back together but this tells me that whatever it was.. was a reoccurring issue. That will have to be address before you get back and not repeat the same mistake.0
Most Helpful Girl
In my experience, and from everyone else I've spoken to, the answer is no. If you haven't been able to make it work all the times you tried, and remained a couple whilst you worked on your issues (instead of break up), then it's just not the right relationship for you, because it's not healthy, or fulfilling, if you've both given up on it before.1
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