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It looks like this guy is using you as a distraction... he is playing with your feelings! He acts like a boyfriend sometimes (=he does not want to lose his narcissistic supply... offering you a sweet to make sure you stick around and pursue him), he acts like a friend sometimes (=he takes some distance, he passively lets you know that you are only a friend), he always ends up talking about sex (that is exactly what he wants from you... nothing more!). This guy is a selfish individual that shows you no respect... don't let him treat you like this!! I would recommend shutting down any communication and moving on. You should have done this 8 months ago... this guy is not worth any second of your time. He said he is seeing someone? Believe him and move on.