Its been months and i still can't get him out of my head. It's really depressing and i want to find closure. What can i do?
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In all reality there is no such thing as closure it is a myth and needs to be demolished from the mindsets of all who suffer. Closure how you are seeking it will only confuse you and allow those old feelings to arise hope from a hopeless situation and keep you wanting to hold the door open.
How many times when you leave your home (forgetting nothing) do you shut the door behind you? ONCE right? so just realize there is no need to open that damn door again just to shut it.
I am sorry you are feeling this pain and still holding on to lost dreams. I need to come across direct not because I do not care about your feelings or empathize. I need to because you have wasted way too much time as it is.
Life is meant for the living. I am happy you are asking what to do. Listen to me, I have been through this many times before and have had many relationships that did not workout and when it was over I focused on what I could have done differently or if she would just communicate with me all will be better.
I needed to realize that person did not workout for a really good reason.
"THAT WAS NOT THE PERSON THAT IS DESIGNED FOR ME (you) !" We think we can force something to work. How many times did you say or hear we are working on our relationship? or everything coming together? etc...
Well a relationship is either THERE or not. it is effortless. Effortless in every single aspect of knowledge and reality. You may feel that everything was perfect and great now when you are missing this person, however there was a reason why it ended and one or two situations does not get credit for ruining it. Simply put it was not true love nor anything you deserve to suffer over any longer.
Nearing the Holidays people feel they need companionship but how many times in your life did you wish for someone else to be next to you during these times instead of someone you are wanting things to eventually work?
So take this time to find your inner happiness with your Higher Power by your side. Rely on that power to guide your every emotion even if it takes or relieves you minute by minute keep taking to your Creator. I absolutely know that you have a perfect and I mean a stunningly perfect person waiting to meet and be with someone as amazing as you are. So be one with your Creator focus on being you and what makes you happy. Realize that no one person can bring you happiness but only enhance it. So get out of your funk by being stuck in the past. and prepare for the guy that wants to be2