Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like he's just trying to get you out of his life.
He tried being gentle about it, but you didn't leave.
So he tried being apathetic towards you, but you didn't leave.
So now he is being an ass about it in hopes you will bugger off.
Best guess anyways, hard to tell
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Most Helpful Girl
First and foremost: Respect yourself enough to throw this one back, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
He's being as flagrantly obvious as he can to get the message through to you.. it's over. Let him go. The why's and why nots only matter to you and if you keep torturing yourself over it you will never recover and find someone that does really love and respect you.
I get that you are hurting, I understand! My husband of 18 years walked away and married his high school sweetheart just a few months after our divorce was final. It was hard to believe that I mattered that little to him after all that time.
I came to realize after nearly two years that I'm better off knowing and not wasting any more of my precious time being with someone with that little regard for me or my feelings.
Best wishes for 2016, may you overcome your grief and find your peace.