Most Helpful Guy
Congratulations, you've just started waking up from a bad dream. sometimes some relationship is not good to be continued, and continue in this relationship will gives you a less opportunities to be (yourself) or to live your life. you have to start determining your priorities and be more valuable than before. the more you have the ability to keep your troubled feelings under control. the more you'll be the most successful person in administration yourself and your feelings.
get rid of that fake friend, and start to open your heart and your mind to be more social and more confident (believe me, there is no such a thing as a lonely person in the world). Don't be afraid and walk by a confident steps to (YOU).
go out from there and promise yourself to be better than before.
Most Helpful Girl
Since you recognize your pattern behavior, now it is time to break it.
You run back to these men...
understand exactly what you are running back to.
You are running back to a fantasy.
You are running back to a relationship you "hope" will be good.
You are running back to someone you "want" him to be.
You have to understand that he isn't any of that.
He is not a place in his life where he even wants change.
You have to look at the facts.
Everytime you feel the urge to run back, remind yourself that you are
running back to an illusion.
An illusion is not what it perceives itself to be.
You deserve better than what you allow yourself to receive.
Do not run back.
Stay away from him.
You have to dig deeper into your soul...
why do you keep allowing yourself to be in relationships like this?
There's something in your life that is missing and you're hoping to find it with these types of men.
You have to find happiness in your soul before you can find it from any one else.
You will always be broken if you look to others to make you happy.
Happiness starts from within.
We allow people that are close to us to be an extension of our happiness.
Looking to others to "give" you that feeling simply will be short-lived or will not happen.