So we were dating for 6 years and the last 2 we were in a long distance realationship and both of us made the effort. We spoke everyday, skyped, and everything in the relationship seem to be working out fine. 2 months before his graduation, I felt like he was being a little distant, so I asked " is everything ok? Are we ok? He said everything was fine, just stressed with school etc.. A week later I was hanging out with my friends. And the morning started as it normal did with him texting me good morning I love you, and me responding the same. At about noon I texted him I was going to call my grandmother, he texted I love you Skype me when your done. So I did and he said " well... ( started crying) I was thinking about what we talked about last week and I realized I'm not happy, and ( crying) and I don't know what's wrong with me, because your so great and blah blah blah. Shocked because he literally told me he loved me that am, I hung up. He texted me " sorry I had to do this over Skype, thank you for the last 6 years and I hope this isn't the last time we talk" I responded immaturely because I was hurt and shocked I said go to hell and don't ever text me again. It's been 2 months without any contact. I guess I'm having a hard time because I never got closure. I suspect another woman, I don't want someone like that in my life. I just want a guy's opinion. I wasn't jealous, he hung out with his friends and lived his life. I never nagged him. I complimented him never took him for granted. How can a man love you one min and poof hate you the next? Thank you
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Not sure he loved you one minute and then HATED you the next. I think he was hiding his true feelings behind some of those i love yous so he could get you on Skype so he could say what he said. It's not easy being in a long distance relationship for 2 years after being together for 4 years it's hard. You start to miss some of those things about being right next to each other and have to find some way to fill the void.
It's suck but it's the truth. Sorry this happened to you.0