Was wondering because, I'm really hurting here. I would like to know how long it took for you guys?
You percieve your ex as someone who's better than all the girls/boys you will meet so you feel so sad, and you have remorse.
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Well I am not the norm I dont think but I am still not over this girl I met 3 years ago. I think had we broken up I would have gotten over her like all the other girls I used to have things with, but we didn't break up. We both really really liked each other, she was so awesome, but due to a number of problems that I am not going to go into, and which were mostly out of our control, we couldnt be together. I dont know whether or not she still likes me, but I am still holding on to the hope that she does, and I think because of the weird situation I keep hoping to be with her again, compared to a normal breakup where you dont really hope to get back together with them. But I seriously know how you feel, the last time I saw her was at the train station, it was like a typical movie seen where I was looking out the window and she was smiling and waving. I haven't cried since I was probably in elementary school, but I cried for at least an hour on that train knowing it was possible I would never see her again. I am still not over her and I am still heartbroken, and I still want to be with her, 3 years later. Hopefully you dont have the struggles I do, but then again you are talking about a breakup which is slightly different then being unwillingly separated from the greatest woman on earth.1