Just wondering if guys do that too. Say you've had your feelings and your vanity hurt/wounded and you told her you never want to see her again in an argument.
Next day you see her laughing and joking with others at work.
do you get upset? Do you miss her? Do you hurt? Or can guys just ignore that feeling? X
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If I were in my preteens yes I'd get upset if I see her laughing and talking the next day of a break up. But by the time I reached my teens, I'd almost become what I am now so no. I'm happier that she's happy and also that hopefully that she won't stalk me lol
There's nothing to ignore. For me when I break up it's a mutual decision (hopefully and preferably) and there's no reason to feel bad if she is happy in her world :)
Having said that, it's only normal for 'normal' people to feel bad, sulk etc when they see the other person having a good time and also that fact is that it's all about ego which we prefer ignoring and call the reaction 'normal' and connect it to he/she has feelings for me kind of stuff :)0