My ex wants to still be best friends 1.5 years after she broke up with me and I tried for this time but I couldn't take it anymore told her I can't because I still have feelings for her. She told me she doesn't have those same feelings. She contacted me 1 month later saying she missed me and how everyday sucks without me and even told me that she was dating someone for a few months previously when I was trying to just be her friend (I had no clue). They aren't together anymore but I still held my ground and she got angry. I care about her immensely but I feel like I am allowed to be selfish here.
Most Helpful Girl
It isn't being selfish, you are just protecting yourself from any further hurt! 😊
Personally, I couldn't remain friends with an ex who I still had feelings for. It would be far too painful. Especially when the person eventually meets someone else, because it would be twice as painful "seeing" someone I still loved about... love someone else.
So considering you still have feelings for her... you made the best decision. Your emotional" state" should be priority. 😊0
Most Helpful Guy
feel free to choose your own good. (fake friend is like a shadow walking behind you when you in the sun and disappears when you in the dark).0