I met a guy on a dating website and we have only met up once. We hit it off, and we were talking for 3 months until we finally met. Yesterday, he complained about me not having a car and having to do an hour drive.
I am not going to have a car for a while because it'll be a while of saving up until I get a car... and he doesn't know this, but I don't know how to drive ( Just turned 18, and my parents never wanted to teach me how to and he doesn't know this). The only thing that I can do is give gas money.
I'm thinking that maybe he's thinking that we aren't going to work out.
I think that I'm already starting to fall for him. I've never felt this way before and I feel like its a little more than infatuation. My day goes HORRIBLE if I don't talk to him, or he's mad at me all day. No matter how sleepy I am, I cannot go to sleep if i am mad at him or if he's mad at me. I daydream about him all day. Ever since I met him, all I want to do is be around him. I want to give him my everything. It'll be hell getting over him.
Should I fight for this or just let this go? Do you think he's thinking of breaking this off?
Most Helpful Guy
You know there are buses, right? You could take the bus and meet him in a town that's midway between where the two of you live.
From the sound of it, you may be getting a bit too infatuated. Your day shouldn't be ruined just because you didn't get to talk to him. Continue to have your own life and interests. If you feel like you are nothing without him, that will come across as desperation or neediness and eventually become a burden on the other person. No one is responsible for your happiness except you. A relationship can enhance your life but it shouldn't take the place of it. Trust that if you and him weren't meant to be, you will survive and move on to new and hopefully better things.1
Most Helpful Girl
LDR, although I feel He is just a stone's throw from you here, dear, is One of the Hardest Relationships to Have and to Uphold of Any Out there. I, for One, probably know this Best from the Rest... I still have a husband out in Egypt and well, I have told this story a million times over..
However, in Your own case, to your face, he is already finding fault with the drive and You not having wheels, which could become some Big deals down the road.
You both need to have a long talk and You need to level with him. Already, you are finding yourself going down a Paradise Path of wearing your poor heart on your arm, and Day dreaming of him to the Point... I cannot go to sleep if I am mad at him..
I am already seeing some problems with the things you both may have said and none of this has Yet been put to bed. If you both don't come to some sort of compromise, yes, this LDR can go real quick in the gutter Drain before you both have a chance for romance.
Right now, it may be a Pain, for Him anyways. And in the end, your own heart could get broken.
Good luck. xx1