So I've been talking to this guy for the past 4 months but lately, the connection just doesn't seem to be there anymore! He goes hours & days without texting me & he will read my message & not reply after so many text messages & he never says he misses me anymore & he doesn't seem as talkative via text anymore! He just doesn't seem as interested in ME anymore! We used to be super close & couldn't go a day without talking to eachother whether it be text, on the phone or FaceTime! Tonight we were texting & I texted him that I missed him & he just read it & never replied.. I think it may be time to let him go! Things don't feel the same between us at all! I don't wanna move on but I think I should pull away from him right now! I'm at the stage of my life where I want a meaningful relationship! I don't want to have to question where I stand with a guy anymore! I'm tired of being single & I really like this guy BUT I can tell things aren't the same & I don't want to keep being attached bc I believe that this little thing we have is basically over :/
I don't want to cut him off right now but I mean after tonight, I don't think I'm gonna text him unless he texts me. He used to tell me he misses me all the time & like the last couple times I've said I miss him, it's weird! Like I said, tonight, he just read my "I miss u" message & stopped texting me.. Which is weird! So I know I need to go ahead & start getting over him & move on I guess! I really don't want to bc he was like my Bestfriend plus we liked eachother a lot, even talked about being more than best friends! I've even talked to his family member & some of his fam members call me an in law & say that he's said that he thinks he's found the one & that he really likes me & talks about me all the time to his aunt! But lately, I can feel something isn't right & we aren't close like we used to be! His texts are kinda dry too! I'm sad bc It seems I'm loosing a Bff! So guys & girls how do I handle this? How do I get over him?
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I don't remember reading that you two hang out. Do you only communicate with him over the phone? If you really care you would ask him what is going on. You would voice your feelings so that he is not in the dark or guessing how you feel and ask him to do the same. That way you are both aware of how you feel towards each other and you can make an educated decision about the relationship. Because saying your not going to text him and wait for him to is childish. If it's something worth holding on to or keeping you should be willing to let him know how you feel. That way there is no regrets your not left wondering what could have been or made a mistake. If he hurts your feelings it's okay. We've all been hurt, dust yourself off and try again. He's not the only fish in the sea.
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