Okay so me and this guy I've been dating for two years have broken up. And we've been broken up for 11 days now and we'll I'm pretty much over it but I just don't know if I'm ready to have males around me. I just wanna know is it okay to be talking to other guys at this point?
Most Helpful Guy
My last relationship of five years ended two months ago. it took me about a month to go through all the negative emotions. I got cheated by my ex. These negative emotion were dark and strong.
Until one day, I realized that she was really not happy to be with me, and she will never be happy staying with me. I want her to be happy, so I let her go and let myself go as well. I start to thank her whatever she did for us, and to be able to joke/laugh about my past relationship with my ex. At that point, I know I am over with my bad break up.
I'm now dating with new girl, and we haven't start new relationship yet.0
Most Helpful Girl
Me and my ex of a year and a half just broke up a week ago, and let me tell you I am nowhere near over it. Sure I talk to other guys, but I know deep down that I am not anywhere close to being emotionally ready to be in a relationship again. You said you and your ex were together for 2 years - it will not be easy to just forgot so much of your life in merely just 11 days. Some days you may feel that you are over it, but getting involved with another guy so soon will most likely just end up being a rebound relationship. You really should probably take a few months to take care of yourself and let the breakup run its course. There's nothing wrong with talking to other guys, but if it starts to go beyond friends, you really should inform him of your recent breakup. Good luck to you.1