my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me four months ago. he was my first love,first kiss,and I gave my virginity to him. I thought he was the sweetest guy ever . two weeks before he ended it I threatened to break up with him because he lied to me and ditched me Saturday night saying he had the flu but really he went out with a group of girls . he begged me not to break up with him so gave him another chance then two weeks later he breaks up with me. doesn't even tell me why . he ended t over text message so I never really got closure. haven't talked to him since. I'm still in love with hm . can't stop thinking of all the memories we had. how do I get over him?
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I know exactly how you feel. I like this girl, possibly love her. She is dating someone else. "When you like someone who likes someone else." It is an all too common problem among teens. We will get through it though. She turned me down a few months ago also, and I still like her. Only, she still shows me signs that she does like me. You have to realize that you made a mistake by going all the way with him. Once a guy gets that out of you, interest is completely lost. There are a few guys including me, that rather love than lust any day. You do not need sex at such a young age. This is getting on to another topic though. He is not the sweetest guy ever if he lied to you so he can go out with umpteen girls. I can see that you forgave him, but you were typically just "booty-call." If you are with a guy that wants sex, as soon as he gets it, the dates are over. Typical boy behavior. He is also a coward since he could not even break up with you in person. If I were you, I would just move on. You deserve much better than someone like him.0