My boyfriend is thinking in breaking up, but not because he is interested in other woman or because he doesn't love me, it is because we cannot see each other because our schedules are busy. But he wants to remain as friends.
I don't want to, I really don't want to, and if we do it, i am afraid we cannot be friends for a long time. I also want him to be happy, and I don't want to be something negative to him.
Maybe that is the only answer available, if I insist, I think it could only do things worse. One of the reasons I resist is because we have only dated for a few months, since last days of September.
How can I accept it?
Maybe I am a fool, but I think I can't take it if we break up, specially because holidays and his birthday are at the next corner, and I think he is thinking the same.
What I can do is to cool down myself, and think in doing things for myself as if I am still single, and wait till he calls me back. He hasn't called me since Tuesday and yesterday I tried to contact him but he hasn't called.
Maybe things can work out if we think on organize our individual lives so we can see each other, be emotianally stable and be in less arguments or blame the other for our problems.
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You don't have to break up, breaking up is the easiest thing to do in this situation. My friend has been with his girlfriend for nearly eight years and for four of those years, they were apart from each other at opposite ends of the country due to their Uni placements and yet despite this distance, they remained strong and fast forward some years they have just moved in together.
There will be struggles in a relationship and it's comes down to how much both people want to be together. If you truly want to be together then you'll ride these tough times through as a solid unit.1