So real quick, I've been with him for almost 1 year, I love him to death and I know he loves me but we've had our ups and downs. We broke up about 2 weeks ago, and he treated me so badly. Told me he was with other girls, ignoring me, laughing at me with all his mates etc. Then this week we got back together and I was happy again and thought I finally got him back, then last night he was meant to meet me and didn't and when he fucks me around I go nuts, kept calling him and his mates trying to find out what was going on and then he says I can't do this anymore it's done and he just leaves with no reason. And this is what is happening right now, his mates ex (she's pregnant) she's at his place and she's answering his phone and saying that they are together now and their having sex. I don't know if I should believe it or not. Cos she's a slut but I know what he's like and he says things like this to make me hate him. But he's done so much bad shit to me recently and I still don't hate him and that's the hard part. I want to hate him so badly but I just can't. Why does he keep leaving me then coming back? I don't know what to do. Help
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry but simply you've made yourself a second choice in this relationship and became someone can't see the differentiate between truth and lies + you don't want to accept the fact that you've become like a backup plan in his life. you know very well that this is not love, but a waste of time and you'll be hurt in the end.
you know that relationship became (friends with benefits).
If you want to realize your value, then you should do something about that relationship and about yourself. because the more you spend time in this relationship the more you disrespect yourself.
but unfortunately you still doing the same thing twice in the same way and the same steps and waiting for different results ( that's called a wasting your time and your value).
give yourself a time to know your real value and learn how to love yourself before you love others
Most Helpful Girl
Wow you have a idiot boyfriend bit like mine. Dear run I say end it an don't look back it's hard so damn hard when you love someone but if he's causing you more misery then happiness isn't it best you focus on you an find a better guy one day. Millions of guys you will connect with don't feel limited or that this is the only guy who you will fall for. The soulmate crap don't exist.0