years he doesn't ever want to have sex the doctor doesn't think there is anything wrong but I don't know if he got bloodwork done or not.
He doesn't even seem to enjoy kissing me nothing I do turns him on he is just not interested in sex anymore
but I know very much so that he wants to marry me.
I do love him but we haven't had really good sex more than once a month for a year now and I've been talking to him trying to get him to open up for 3 months now.
I can't get married with things like this but even after I tell him what I want sexually he doesn't do it ex I love when you kiss my neck all I get is a fucking bird peck.
Im really scared about breaking up cause we've lived together for 5 years I don't know what to do?
Most Helpful Guy
Have u tried spicing things a little
Maybe buy some new lingerie or add some foreplay that he maybe into
If u have then it seems he is suffering from some mental issue, most probably stress which has led to him loosing his sex drive, it can be solved easily if u just take him to a psych
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Most Helpful Girl
I had to have this same talk my husband. I adore my husband, but I have my needs. I read a couple of books called a Sex Starved marriage and then a Sex Starved Wife. They are both by Michele Weiner Davis. The things she wrote in these books helped me describe to him how his "mood killer" was affecting me. I would tell him how it makes you feel as a woman and if he can't step up and figure out what the problem is you either need sex therapy or a break. God bless!