so I have an exam coming up tomorrow and I have been studying almost all night. I asked my girlfriend if she wanted to go see a movie at 7. which she texted back and said she was down. so i got a message from her at 6:30 saying "would you rather study, I dont mind?". So me thinking she was being cool with it I said "okay, is it cool if I come spend the night with you later?" and then I texted her after asking if she wanted to get ice cream at 8 becasue I would rather do that.
So she broke up with me saying I dont care about her because I made plans with her and blew her off. even though she texted me and said she didn't mind if I would rather study. So she was basically testing me to see if I would blow her off. Should i even consider chasing after her or just leave it becasue of this. I honestly feel so back stabbed that she would do something like this. That I honestly might just leave it. any opinions?
Most Helpful Girl
Tbh I'm really sorry about that. its not cool of her I do that. seems fishy to me, since it was so sudden (at least it sounds sudden to me, I may be wrong tho lol). Seems like she's making it look like your doing, which it's not. Do NOT feel guilt or any type of guilt for this. You're good bro. Seems childish to me, for her to do that. Since it's real short notice of her unexpected break up, it seems like she's been thinking about it for a while, because people just don't snap like that. (Unless she's been kinda crazy lately haha😅) (btw not insulting ur girlfriend, just a word) (and I'm sorry that that's what it seems like.) (and sorry for the "(" & ")'s" 😅)
I may be bias rn, since I'm SUPER SALTY RN. lol but I would say give her space. (As in let her be, as in ditch her haha😅)
but it is always better to work it out before really walking away. Consider the pros and cons, the rewards and consequences. you got this dude. Just before you go into a convo/argument with her, of five before hand what you're going to say. Because us girls are very devious (« sorry bout that 😁) we can make you change your mind, and pull you back in, in an instance, and you won't realize until it's too late, and you're re-committed again.
Good luck with everything. I know it's hard, but keep on chuggin!! (No, not alchol, I mean like chuggin like a train; keep on goin haha!) I'll be prayin for ya brother! (I really will! No joke!) hope everything turns out the way it should.
let me know ab how it goes!! xx1
Most Helpful Guy
That's sounds like teenage bullshit lol. I guess it depends on how your relationship is. Also how do you feel that she she broke up with you over school. And then her trying to pull the wool over your eyes and making it look like its all your fault.
Seems very immature0