Earlier today my long distance boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me because he said he didn't trust me and would never stay with someone he doesn't trust (even though I haven't done anything to make him feel this way) I thought we were completely in love and we had planned some of our future together. He told me that he couldn't do this anymore and I feel so completely broken and I don't know what to do or how to cope with this
Most Helpful Guy
just put one foot in front of teh other... if you've done nothing to give him reason to distrust you then i think that he is making an excuse. perhaps he cheated. often times people who cheat or are in the process of doing so will project their own behavior into mistrust of their partner OR he simply wanted to break up and needed an excuse
so now you just move forward. surround yourself with friends, family and loved ones. indulge in your hobbies and things that bring you happiness. just try and not think about or focus on the break up0
Most Helpful Girl
Long-. distance relationships tend to cause insecurities. People can become paranoid due to hardly ever spending quality time together. It takes an emotionally strong person to make a long-. distance relationship survive Doubts start to surface and they feel emotionally unsafe. So maybe he's the type of guy who loses his emotional security in a long- distance relationship.
All you can do is talk to him and reassure him that his heart is safe with you 💚0