My woman left me three months ago and I can't stop missing her. I am not bitter or jaded, I accept that she had her reasons for leaving but how do I stop missing her?
Most Helpful Girl
What's the point of asking this question here? Everyone needs to find their own way of moving on. :)0
Most Helpful Guy
You are focusing on the fantasy part of the relationship may be ignoring the lesser quality's the relation did not provide. When your direction is skewed on the non reality, your subconscious daydreams on the what if's and could have been's. the only way you are going to ease the pain of loss no mater what the loss is. Is to focus what awaits you. Realizing in order to get what awaits you you need to learn from the past and move on from those who choose another direction than yours. Which is not as bad as it seems. she is doing you a favor by allowing you not to waste another minute with someone who just simply wasn't meant to be. She didn't hurt to hurt you. She knew that it wasn't right for her and possibly she knew you deserve someone else.
It's alright man you just simply just let her go by letting this relationship end. She is not part of your future pages of your life's book she was a part of your life so no need to tear out those pages just turn the page and see what is written in the next pages coming ahead. with new character (s).
This is the perfect time to take a good look at yourself write down pro's and con's of your personal traits and behaviors if something needs some tweaking then adjust it and tune it up. Warning though dude. you can not overhaul an engine with the motor running. so shut down the dating and take a deep look inside yourself to see why your emotional state is so uneasy. why do you need a girlfriend to feel better about yourself? you need to get to a better place of comfort no matter what the situation or circumstances are at any given time.
I draw towards intuition from my Creator. if i don'r know how to take the next step I ask for help, like you just did.
If you truly want love that will never leave and keep growing together than take this golden opportunity to do what is suggested here. Do not look for love it will come to you and cross your path effortlessly all's you have to do is let her go and turn to your inner self with help from your Creator.1