He asked me to hang out on weekend then baled on me. Now he is cold again and saying its not "intentional". What does he want? Is he stringing me along?
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My ex did the same thing. He didn't want anything to do with me, but he still wanted me to be there, so that he wouldn't feel the change that the break up would bring to our lives. He didn't want to feel lonely. That's using you: he knows you love him, he knows he doesn't love you, but he still wants your attention. I learned the worst way possible, and the answer to that is a big NO. Tell him to just go away and leave you alone. The more you get attached to him, the more you'll suffer, you won't be able to move on and you'll be missing out on so much more life has to give you.1