Most Helpful Girl
It's not going to be easy, but you have to let this girl go.
If you love somebody you have to consider THEIR feelings, not just your own, otherwise you are unknowingly being selfish. You broke up with her out of anger and she realized then that she no longer felt compatible with you, and it's clear that she still has this belief. You trying to force a relationship on her and constantly trying to get her back is only going to reaffirm to her that you're more concerned about YOUR feelings and not hers. If distance and time is what she needs, you have to give it to her. I'm sorry.
You need to get back in touch with yourself; get back into old hobbies, start going out with friends again - things of that nature that don't revolve around obsessing over your ex girlfriend. Before you know it you'll begin feeling like yourself again.
Most Helpful Guy
i think you are being optimistic that she'll give it another chance.
I think you just have to accept that for the time being it's over. so begin the process of moving on. surround yourself with friends and family. do things that can distract you from constantly pining over this girl. it's not going to be easy for sure but it's really just a matter of putting one foot in front of the other and walking away.