after the fifth time it happened, I told him that if he did it again, I wouldn't know what to do...
Then we got into another argument, and he basically called me every name under the sun. Sadly I reacted and I slapped him in public... as much as he deserved it, it still hurt me too to do that to someone I love. After a couple of hours of arguing and more harsh words I said enough was enough...
i moved out from where we live, and I took all my things... I would be lying if I said this isn't painful, because we did everything together. I know he loves me as much as I love him but I can't be with someone who repeatedly makes the same mistakes over and over, especially if it's lack of respect.
weve all experienced heartbreak at one point, and although I left, I'm still so in love with him, and I know this is hard on him as it for me, i still love him... but I don't want another half ass apology or excuse... help
Most Helpful Guy
I understand he is making the same mistake over and over by calling you those names. In the first place, have you asked yourself why is he calling you those names. You must be doing something he doesn't like and you are doing it over and over also. Being in a relationship is about being in balance and knowing what's wrong and what's right. When there is true love involved, the madness doesn't drive both of you away. Of course there is limitations or a white line, so if it really gets out of hand, the best thing to do is to leave.
My advice is to try to work things out with him, if both of you both still really love each other. Tell him that it really hurts you when he calls you those names. If he doesn't learn from that mistake again, this time leave him and don't contact him again.
Most Helpful Girl
You made the right decision. I've discovered if a person truly cares for you they show that in their actions not their words. My ex pretty much did the same thing (except the name calling), claimed I was the best girl he ever dated, that I have showed him so much care and the 1st girl he ever wanted to marry. When I approached him about our future and how I felt unsatisfied, he said some nasty very hurtful things. Someone that hurts the person they supposedly love like that, don't truly care for the person.