Why did my boyfriend really break up with? and cry about it?
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Oh goodness. First of all, I am SO sorry that you've had to go through that. I can imagine how hard it'd be after four years! But, don't fret. I know it's hard to hear, but if he is going to just up and leave, he is not worth your time.
Second, he should not be able to pick and choose when he wants you in his life or not. It should be all or nothing in my mind. That's just not fair to you.
Lastly, he could just be really insecure and worried that you will leave him since everything else in his life is not going right. His fear of losing you could be why he broke up with you. I know that's ridiculous, but he probably would not be able to bear it if you left him, so he's doing it before you can. If he is worth the effort, then show him you're not going anywhere. If it's not working, move on and let him do what he needs to in his life right now. Maybe he will even come back after he gets everything right in his life, who knows.
Sorry I don't know if that helped at all, but I wish you the best of luck with that whole situation. Hang in there!1
Just because he broke up with you doesn't mean he doesn't still love you and wants to be with you. But he just doesn't think a relationship is the best idea at the moment, he may think in order to get his life together he may not have enough time to devote to you or your relationship. And because he doesn't know how long it'll take for him to get on track he may be just saying he's not in love with you anymore, he may think you would be happier being with someone who can be there for you and does have their life together.1
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