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Guys have always been into sex. its how we are made. but its not everything.
what we really want is a good woman by our definition. not women's definitions.
the current Paradigm has been warped, just as the traditional paradigm was warped.
things always get twisted by the love of money, ego, vanity etc.
I think the current problems stem from out of balance situations and people. and when things aren't wholesome people will revert to and focus on fundamentals, for guys thats sex. women these days aren't what men want in their heads, so that just leaves a body, doesn't it?
every problem brings opportunities with it.
I see the current situation as very rich picking for women who wake up and adapt, and who realize that being the center of the universe is poison to relationships.
Any woman who excells at being a good partner has nothing to worry about. the competition literally sucks...
sex is fun and pleasurable, and its what attracts men to women first, and then things go from there... women are often very much like reversed polarity from men, its like we are two halves of a whole, and see everything from reversed perspectives.
if you want more than sex from men,
you have to also be other things that they want,
and what your girlfriends say is likely more of a problem than help. especially feminists.
Being good at sex will keep a guy around, but for longer terms a woman needs other positive traits, and attitude is everything, and honestly most women's attitudes these days are humorously off target, but generally you can't tell them anything and they have to learn via personal failure..
relationships are not about you. they are about an us... so if you play head games, manipulate, rag, think guys are your free wallet, etc. be prepared for a lot of backs going out your door. you will know a lot of men superficially, but you won't find one that sticks around...
women think they are irresistible, not so... everything has limits, even male hormones and what they will put up with...
women seem to have a hard time believing in or understanding limits, and seem incapable of realizing that drama, fighting, and ragging, build up over time, and eventually a man gets sick of it and walks.
Many women find a mangina type, and happily pour on the abuse. but they are choosing inferior genetics for their children.
I have seen women choose stupid men because they were easier to manipulate... what did that vanity do to her childrens chances in the real world?1
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