Most Helpful Girl
People are jerks, it's true. My ex boyfriend is kind of doing the same thing. I have a pretty strong feeling he is going around telling people I cheated on him, which is untrue. He cheated on me, and I left him because he would not be truthful and was lying to me about everything.
I'm sorry that this all happened to you. But I think if she slept with your best friend, it might be for the better that you two are no longer together. You obviously have a hard time trusting her. It's hard to move past cheating.
It sucks because this is your first love. But you will love again. I bet you in a couple years you will look back on this and laugh. I remember my first love, and I can't believe I even dated them! :P
You need to move on from her. Stop messaging her, leave the past in the past and try and move on for your own sake.
Most Helpful Guy
Let her go dude... If she did that within two years there is no grounds left for a future. I'm not saying it would be ok if she had done this later that's not it at all. The getting in a fight happened , she went to a party ( alone or at least not with you ) she got drunk and cheated... Almost sounds planned to me. No one can really give full trust back to a person that cheats on them dude. Don't put your self in a place to be hurt again , it's just not worth it. Take time to get it out and find a new girl that will treat you better