I broke up with the father of my child about a week ago. I called him a day later telling him that I still believe in us. Instead, he brought my clothes that were at his place and he has been as cold as ice. He said he needs space, which I am willing to give, but when he came to visit our baby, he barely said a thing to me. Its like we never had good times. I'm willing to give him his space but is there hope? Him bringing my stuff kinda feels like he has closed our relationship chapter.
- Yes there is hope, give him time.Vote A
- Nope, just forget about himVote B
- It could go either wayVote C
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It's Obvious with him Bringing 'My stuff' and Acting like a cold fish with the baby as well, that He is Not into Bonding, Not into a Real relationship and not only wants his 'Space' But... His freedom as well, I can tell.
He is happy to be his own free bird, and I might add, he is being immature and childish. But he is also a little boy himself that he is not Ready to be a daddy, not Raring to be your SO, so for Now... All you can do is not push him, try to focus on you and the baby and one day, he may come around on his own
He probably does think about those 'good times,' I am sure, and as far as the 'Closed the relationship chapter,' I am sure too that he Knows deep Down... The cradle can't fall even if your own bough has broken, he Knows he has a little one now.
Good luck. xx2
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