He was accepting of the baby; carried him around, pushed his stroller, kissed his cheek etc. He started acting concerned that we couldn't just go places alone; I needed to arrange for a sitter, but he only gave me enough notice a few times. So the baby was with us most of the time. Keep in mind that he also has children..
We got serious; exchanged, "I love yous"... always together... It bothered me that he couldn't ever make up his mind about where to travel, what to do about his kids, his dog. Couldn't make up his mind about anything. He was always talking about " plans" or his future in a worried, indecisive way.
He accused me of cheating on Nov 7. Distanced himself, started acting strangely. This went on for about a month until I found his pof account. He was messaging/propositioning other women as early as Nov 3. I confronted him. He says that since he didn't post a picture of himself that he wasn't cheating (it is a cartoon picture)... now he blocked me on his phone, and all social media. I can't even get my debit card or my car seat back from him. Usually he is a fair and kind person.
We were talking about marriage and moving out of state together just a couple of weeks ago...
I miss him but also I don't really want to deal with his behavior right now and I want to give him space... not sure what to do.