Most Helpful Guy
You broke up for a reason. The reason you identified was his drug abuse but addicted and dependent people tend to be very angry and self-centered. Even if he controls his dependency, the underlying anger and selfishness will still be there. If you really want to know how it works, go attend an Al-Anon meeting and talk to some of the ladies there.
Most Helpful Girl
It happened to me! I was 20 years old I wasn't aware of his drug use until we got married, he never changed, I got him on rehab, counseling, therapist; nothing worked! We had a baby 1st year of marriage he didn't care. I became a victim of domestic violence! from beating to raping you name it. MOVE ON! I was stoked for 4 years because I loved him, he never changed he cheated on me many times! Got married twice after me and didn't work either. Today my son is 20 years old and I never told him anything bad about his father but he have had so many bad experiences with his dad he doesn't want a relationship with his own dad! My son doesn't even want to be called like his dad (as he is Jr) my son prefer to be called different.
Girl you are young, move on don't waste time on that guy he is bad news! I wish some told me before I got married not knowing his drug problem!