I guess its really over between me and her, honestly my heart hurt and i feel like crying, it sucks it gotta be this way cause i loved her. She's mad at me cause I didn't speak to her when I had the opportunity to bring us back together. I was scared, im a shy person who fears rejection, and the whole time i wanted to talk to her, but i feared she might have told me no, but after hearing she was willing if i would've spoke up, makes it worse cause i blew it, and i feel as if she really going to move on this time. I really regret this so much. She won't even have a conversation with me. Is there any chance I would get a 3rd chance?
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depends on the maturity level of the girl my friend...
I was caught in that trap myself - except I was getting mixed messages.
(calling me and hanging up, but telling me she didn't want anything to do with me when i went to her)
Younger women are caught up in that "he should mind read" me thing.
There is a little bit of ego there as well. (he should really grovel). They are also caught up in the way things should happen. and of course crazy.
Older women (in general) are a lot more aware (if that word works). That the situation may have gotten out of hand and that if you make a sincere - open and direct romantic message she will have to take it in and process it. Be fucking bold, flowers- eye contact and "i want you... i wanted you all along... I dont deserve you but you are the angel of my dreams"
Don't worry about rejection - you made your play for the best in the bravest way possible. fuck what happens next - you only live once bro0