Basically I split from my girlfriend of 4 months over an argument we had, we had been good friends for 2 years previous and I always really liked her.
She text me at the start saying she liked me and wanted to see me. We were together for 4 months but I got drunk and text her some stuff I shouldn't have too early in the relationship.
We had a row where she said things were moving too fast for her, after the row we didn't speak for 8 days when she messaged me first.
I read online about no contact to try and win her back. Its been 14 days since we last spoke but I was driving today and saw her and her sister and it made me realise how much I miss her and I really want to text her. The other thing is I will be seeing her in 3 days at a party and I don't know if I should message her before... No contact is supposed to be at least 21 days and I don't know if I should message her or weather it will mess things up even more.
Most Helpful Girl
Just message her if you want. There's no set rules in dating, it's silly. Don't just go by everything you read online.0
Most Helpful Guy
Nope. No contact means no contact.0