i know a guy who has cheated in past. he has also had a serious long term (almost 2 yrs) loyal relationship with a girl. he mainly only cheated in high school and he agrees that since then he has grown up and doesn't want to do that anymore. He said he'd do it when he got bored with a relationship and now realizes that's the point where you just need to break up.
i really like him otherwise. am I naive to give him a chance?
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I say once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't be so naive. he's stupid enough to blame it on boredome when it truly was him not having the gall to say that he needs a break. I'm in the same situation, and its killing me to say no to this guy, but he was a cheater. He's even known as one of the sweetest guys at our school. But I can guaruntee you he'll cheat again, and you don't want it to be with you, especially if you have serious feelings for you.1