My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago and I am really confused as to why because I thought we were perfect.
We dated for almost 2 months
We never argued
We had so much in common
We were always so cute and flirty with each other and our relationship was just perfect in my opinion. Other than the fact that
We live 40 minutes away from each other so we hadn't seen each other in a month.
First he started replying slowly saying how busy he was with basketball and school. Then about a week ago he stopped sending me kissy face emojis and stopped saying sweet things to me. He told me nothings wrong. Then he broke up with me and his reasoning basically was "I'm not ready for a relationship right now. I just don't know what I want right now. I thought dating you I would know, but I don't. I think we should see other people. I really did like you before then I just lost our connection and I don't like you anymore. I'm sorry but you're beautiful your a great girl and you'll find someone who loves you as much as you love them someday".
I don't know I'm just Confused on how he could just lose feelings for me all of a sudden. I asked if he lost our connection because we haven't seen each other in a while and he said no. Does anyone have any ideas sorry if it makes no sense /:
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Peoples feelings can change unfortunately. He's probably been busy and he wasn't as invested in the relationship as you were, he probably didn't have the same feelings as you did. I'm sorry you're going through this. Honestly, some people are just weird. My ex broke up with me out of the blue after 8 months, though he was a manipulative asshole. Your ex probably just didn't want a relationship right now - that's a perfectly valid reason, as hurtful as it is. Sometimes it happens. I hope your pain passes quickly ❤️1