However, every time my ex contacts me it makes me sad about the loss of the relationship. So, I realized I still had feelings for him and couldn't stand to be in the gray area anymore. After all it's hard to delete 5 years from your memory. So I suggested we get coffee or lunch via text and haven't heard back after 1 day. What does this mean? Do I still have a chance?
I figured by asking him out I would either find out via meeting him in person or he would never contact me again and I could move on with my life instead of being in limbo. I feel like he may be just using me for emotional support when we talk, with no intention of ever wanting to get back together. What do you think? If he's not interested why would he keep talking to me like old times?