He broke up with me and became the biggest jerk to me. I still can't believe some of the things he says to me.
He goes around telling everyone I always told him what to do and I'm controlling, but then he tells me to shut up, get over it, that he doesn't need to hear my voice, if I don't agree with him on something. he's told me I'm not allowed to talk about anything but our son if I tell him something interesting, but he's always asking me about my life like who's in the room with me,my schedule,and he's allowed to make jokes and only then is he okay with talking.
I can't get rid of him because we have a son together, but I don't think I can take this for the rest of my life. We'll be good for a while then all of a sudden he snaps and is mean to me. I just can't handle the up and down feelings, and he makes me feel so terrible that I cry. Please give me some advice?
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Kind of opposite of mine. I was the best thing in the world to my ex girlfriend for the longest time and she wanted me/loved me so greatly it seemed. She experienced a social maturation and became very physically attractive and suddenly is too good for me. Her friends influenced her decision as well I feel. She did the same thing to me- "shut up" and would even yell at me for being a nice guy!? It was just anything and everything she could be critical of, she was. I am looking for an explanation of her actions myself! It's so frustrating. Just be unavailable to him.. Make time with your son and ignore him the rest of the time.. it will work.0