My ex and I were still sleeping together for 6 months after we split. We ended it about 8 weeks ago as he'd started seeing another girl. I cut off all contact and was feeling much better and kind of starting to feel over it.
Last Friday night, he showed up at my door drunk and crying that he'd made a mistake and that he's leaving the new girl. So stupidly I let him in and slept with him. Then the next day he said it was a mistake and he meant what he said but still doesn't want back with me. So there I was heartbroken and back at square one.
So a couple of nights later, I was drunk and messaged the new girl about what had happened and what he had said. She wanted proof that I didn't have. He then messaged me and said look will you stop messaging her about our past, I said by past you mean us sleeping together last friday? He replied, we never had sex last Friday, i was out with my friends.
I'm gobsmacked, I never thought he was a liar. So now she thinks I'm just some crazy nutter ex making up stories. I feel so so depressed about this whole thing and like an idiot, I thought he cared.
I messaged him back telling him that if he sees me out or in the street not to even say hi, that I don't know who he is anymore. He just replied that he is sorry that things worked out the way they did and said he is 100% sure I'll be better than fine and do well for myself.
Do I just leave it at that? I am heartbroken, he's making me out to be a liar but I have no proof. I also feel guilty and being so nasty to him in my last message which is crazy because he's the one in the wrong, he's the one lying. He's happy with her whilst I'm picking up the pieces and heartbroken again when I was fixed. I hate this.
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He won't be happy long young Lady I assure you of that , the seed of doubt was planted in the new girl thoughts. She will figure this out on her own. He may be getting by with it now but Karma is a cold hearted b! t@h that does not forget and does not forgive1
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As much as you 'Hate this,' I can tell you, as wise as an owl that I am, I "Hate" this sticky situation that you sadly got your poor vulnerable part in. Time to put this to bed and get it in Your own Head... You Can do well for yourself, he is right.
Stay clear, dear, and move on. It is always going to end up to be a Full circle problem pattern of "He said, She said," and I feel as well, he is a loser in love, no matter how you slice his not so sweet cake.
Don't Involve yourself in any more of Pushing a button on your end. You don't need the Drama Queen Redrick with this guy.. Start off the New Year off right by Taking him off of your contact list.
Good luck and Happy Holidays. xx1